What questions should customers think through before talking to professionals about their project?
Why does it cost so much?
There's an old story credited to Picasso in his later years where he spent only 5 minutes to produce a sketch and asked $4,000 for it. When asked why so much, he asserted that this work didn't take a mere 5 minutes, but 90 years and 5 minutes. Such is the case for officiants who have spent years studying the art of ceremony design as well.
From the point of view of a ceremony guest, it may look as if a wedding officiant is providing merely a half an hour of service to the family. Such people will occasionally ask why it should cost a whole day's pay for a few minutes service.
Of course, the reality is much more complex. In fact, far more than 30 minutes of work goes into the design, writing, editing, rehearsing and performing of a modern wedding ceremony.
Please consider the time, work and expense involved in:
In-person consultations
Emails and phone calls
Finalizing ceremony wording, vows, readings and musical choices
Coordinating schedules of the participants, for consultations and rehearsals
Research for particular ceremony options (both the research done currently and that performed over years of education and training)
Ceremony preparation, proof-reading, private read-throughs, updating, revisions, submitting for editing, last minute changes and eliciting the final approval
Travel time and time spent waiting before rehearsals
The rehearsal itself
Travel time and time spent waiting before the ceremony
Calming nervous participants before the ceremony
Greeting guests before the ceremony
The ceremony itself (those infamous 30 minutes)
Being available to participants and guests following the ceremony
Writing contracts and filing legal and personal paperwork
~ then of course there's the time lost with our own significant others on weekends, when family and friends tend to be home.
Remember:
You can always have a wedding without the dresses, the tuxedos, the flowers, the rings, the food and music, but...
You can't have a ceremony without an Officiant. If you want a legal wedding, it's one of the only items you DO need.
If you don't really care how experienced, knowledgable and professional your officiant is, then it makes sense to shop around for the cheapest price.
But if you want an officiant with a reputation you can trust, someone with experience who can handle the details for you while you enjoy your wedding day; consider budgeting for a professional officiant who will work for a lot longer than 30 minutes to make sure your wedding ceremony is everything you dreamed it could be