Marriage Counselors in Encinitas, CA

I consider it a great honor when a client entrusts me with their inner most thoughts and struggles. Throughout my life people have always felt comfortable confiding in me, sharing things that they’ve never shared with anyone else. They feel comfortable being vulnerable with me and I consider it a wonderful privilege to hold that space for them without any judgement nor expectations and in complete confidence. For this reason, I decided to become a confidant and guide professionally. I have a wealth of knowledge and understanding from personal experiences throughout my life, gaining much wisdom from trial and error (and more error). Not the most pleasant way to learn a life lesson, but definitely the most impactful. I have experience with everything from personal/professional development to parenthood to divorce to addiction to domestic violence (just to name a few). I’ve participated in my own therapy throughout my entire adult life and found that of all my therapists, the two that made the greatest impact in my life, and who gave me practical ways to apply their guidance, were life coaches with vast personal experience and not necessarily traditionally educated psychologists. I believe that I can be that person to my clients and I combine several approaches to meet client needs with self-reflection, suggestion and simple application. We can reflect on our life and experiences until we are blue in the face, but it is with practical application of appropriate mental health tools that we see the greatest change. I look forward to continue my work and to guide you toward a more fulfilling, balanced and peaceful existence.

I care. Im excited to support you both getting your needs met in the relationship and having it happen in ways that add to your connection and feeling of being a loving couple. Clients feel like giving me a five star review because they experience and feel how I’m invested in their happiness when they let me into their lives. WHAT TO EXPECT Where did we get instruction in Conflict Resolution? Or Functional Communication? In the first twenty minute consultation you’ll know that you’re understood and seen. You’ll receive an overview of what you’re most likely here learning. My offer to you is ADVANCED relationship skills with the ability to grow together with intimacy , vulnerability and safety as pillars of the relationship. A spiritual partnership, if you wish. Also,, I’ve “worked my own process”. Meaning I came from feeling overwhelmed and lost in the jungle of emotions and programming ~ to being able to self-regulate and guide others — to emotional freedom and happiness. ****** Sorry I don’t accept insurance ******* I DO help couples who have reached the limits of their own relationship skills and are open to a new way of viewing their relationship, that literally makes them partners in co-evolution. Let me explain…. WHAT TO EXPECT: We will get a clear picture of where you want to arrive in working together, so we stay focused on the good feelings we’re moving towards. On the way, everything that would prevent you will show up to be cleared. (I will be providing you with some information, ways of understanding yourself and what motivates you, as areas of focus for rapid evolution) As we become mindful of ourselves and our triggers, we become able to communicate consciously, rather than being emotionally reactive, off-balance (and ineffective). Mindfulness is the fastest way to achieve lasting real transformation. Relationship is where we actually see Ourselves…..in relation to others. A Soul-Centered Relationship means you become partners rather than adversaries- recognizing that you may both have unhealed heart injuries negatively influencing your ability to Love & Trust, and show up as “Your Best Self”. We don’t always need to be sweet and gentle, but we do want to handle each other with care. Tone of Voice goes a very long way towards conveying loving! If “Awareness is half the battle.”, then the other half is applying Love to the places that are HURT. Seeing our blind spot is invaluable in Life, and relationship does this so well! 🤣 Most couples are unknowingly acting out some form of relationship they saw growing up. This is UNCONSCIOUS relationship and is often filled with Drama. You will arrive at a new and inspiring way of relating to your loved ones, yourself, and all important relationships. This model is powerful in turning mediocre relationships (run by fear) into relationships of substance, trust, growth, and supportive connection (run by trust & safety). From surviving a relationship, to THRIVING in relationship. 20 years of experience and a Master's Certificate in Spiritual Psychology. (Not a licensed therapist, more of a mentor and coach) ⭐️On-demand. - Real-Time Coaching (You get sessions and you get to call while you're stuck!) ⭐️Rapid results. Relationships follow some very specific patterns, and I've learned the "hacks" to move clients into harmony, very quickly. The 1st free 20 minute call often lasts a half hour in order to leave you CONVINCED that I understand your challenge and can truly help. I guide couples to a mutually respectful fulfilling You are a Soul (non-physical) having a human experience (physical), Life is a school where you come to remember how to Love & Trust

➡️ PLEASE NOTE- SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY. ➡️All client sessions are virtual - Phone call or Video call. ➡️I do not accept insurance. Welcome to Living in Love coaching. 🎉 I am deeply committed to guiding individuals and couples toward fulfilling and thriving relationships. Whether you're navigating the complexities of being single or facing challenges as a couple, I'm here to support you on your journey to lasting fulfillment. How I Help: 🔗 Breaking Through Barriers: Together, we'll identify and break down the barriers and patterns that may be hindering your relationship's growth. By addressing underlying issues, we pave the way for genuine connection. 🔄 Navigating Transitions: Life is full of transitions, and each one impacts relationships differently. I specialize in helping you navigate these changes, ensuring a smooth transition for both singles and couples. 💑 Couples Harmony: For couples, I provide tailored guidance to enhance communication, resolve conflicts, and rediscover the joy in your relationship. My approach fosters understanding, trust, and intimacy. For Serious Inquiries Only: I'm committed to working with individuals and couples who are genuinely invested in transforming their relationships. If you're ready to make positive changes and are serious about the process, I'm here to help. Affordability: Please note that my services come with a specific pricing structure which includes emails/text support between sessions. I believe in the value of the work I do together, and I'm dedicated to providing a high level of service. Serious inquiries from those who are ready to invest in themselves and their relationship. 📧 Contact Me: If you're ready to embark on a journey towards a thriving relationship, reach out for a consultation. Let's work together to create the fulfilling connections you desire.

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