Real Transformation

Serves Encinitas, CA

35244

Hired 44 times

2 employees

23 years in business

$130

4.8

This pro accepts payments via Cash, Credit card, PayPal, Square cash app, and Venmo.

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Hours

Sun Closed
Mon 10:00 am - 9:00 pm
Tues 8:00 am - 9:00 pm
Wed 10:00 am - 9:00 pm
Thurs 8:00 am - 9:00 pm
Fri 8:00 am - 7:00 pm
Sat 8:00 am - 4:00 pm

Credentials

Background Check

Brian Miller 
Completed on 6/2/2021 

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Introduction

I care. Im excited to support you both getting your needs met in the relationship and having it happen in ways that add to your connection and feeling of being a loving couple. Clients feel like giving me a five star review because they experience and feel how I’m invested in their happiness when they let me into their lives. WHAT TO EXPECT Where did we get instruction in Conflict Resolution? Or Functional Communication? In the first twenty minute consultation you’ll know that you’re understood and seen. You’ll receive an overview of what you’re most likely here learning. My offer to you is ADVANCED relationship skills with the ability to grow together with intimacy , vulnerability and safety as pillars of the relationship. A spiritual partnership, if you wish. Also,, I’ve “worked my own process”. Meaning I came from feeling overwhelmed and lost in the jungle of emotions and programming ~ to being able to self-regulate and guide others — to emotional freedom and happiness. ****** Sorry I don’t accept insurance ******* I DO help couples who have reached the limits of their own relationship skills and are open to a new way of viewing their relationship, that literally makes them partners in co-evolution. Let me explain…. WHAT TO EXPECT: We will get a clear picture of where you want to arrive in working together, so we stay focused on the good feelings we’re moving towards. On the way, everything that would prevent you will show up to be cleared. (I will be providing you with some information, ways of understanding yourself and what motivates you, as areas of focus for rapid evolution) As we become mindful of ourselves and our triggers, we become able to communicate consciously, rather than being emotionally reactive, off-balance (and ineffective). Mindfulness is the fastest way to achieve lasting real transformation. Relationship is where we actually see Ourselves…..in relation to others. A Soul-Centered Relationship means you become partners rather than adversaries- recognizing that you may both have unhealed heart injuries negatively influencing your ability to Love & Trust, and show up as “Your Best Self”. We don’t always need to be sweet and gentle, but we do want to handle each other with care. Tone of Voice goes a very long way towards conveying loving! If “Awareness is half the battle.”, then the other half is applying Love to the places that are HURT. Seeing our blind spot is invaluable in Life, and relationship does this so well! 🤣 Most couples are unknowingly acting out some form of relationship they saw growing up. This is UNCONSCIOUS relationship and is often filled with Drama. You will arrive at a new and inspiring way of relating to your loved ones, yourself, and all important relationships. This model is powerful in turning mediocre relationships (run by fear) into relationships of substance, trust, growth, and supportive connection (run by trust & safety). From surviving a relationship, to THRIVING in relationship. 20 years of experience and a Master's Certificate in Spiritual Psychology. (Not a licensed therapist, more of a mentor and coach) ⭐️On-demand. - Real-Time Coaching (You get sessions and you get to call while you're stuck!) ⭐️Rapid results. Relationships follow some very specific patterns, and I've learned the "hacks" to move clients into harmony, very quickly. The 1st free 20 minute call often lasts a half hour in order to leave you CONVINCED that I understand your challenge and can truly help. I guide couples to a mutually respectful fulfilling You are a Soul (non-physical) having a human experience (physical), Life is a school where you come to remember how to Love & Trust

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Q&A

What should the customer know about your pricing (e.g., discounts, fees)?

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I allow people to tell me what they would like to achieve and we agree on how long it might take. I have a discovery call that lasts about 20 minutes, then we schedule a first session for an 90 minutes. In this session i am able to clean up some smaller issues, and hone in on the core issues. This allows me to gauge what is required to get the relationship to a the next-level, where the intimacy and vulnerability will become self-actualizing!

What is your typical process for working with a new customer?

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My job is to restore the flow of Love, whatever that looks like! I ask, "Where are we now?" This tells me their feelings. I listen deeply to find out what the "chief complaint" is of each person, listening to the heart of the matter, not just the words. Then I immediately ask, "And where are we going?" In the process of restoring the flow of Love, by looking at what is blocking the Flow, we often find hidden trauma and heal it. This has a two-fold beneficial effect for the relationship

What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?

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In 2002 I graduated from the University of Santa Monica's 2 year Masters in Spiritual Psychology program, and have coached over 8000 hours since then. I listen deeply from the perspective I am witnessing a precious human Life, that just wants to Love and be Loved. And having spent my Life asking "What is Life?" I have some unique insights. We are all in relationship, all the time. We are in relationship to ourselves, to Life, to each other, etc. Feeling connection is a result of bringing positive attention to the relationship. I teach tools for creating safe, supportive, deeply honest communication which creates trust and intimacy, and has the ability to heal emotional wounds through loving attention. I facilitate The Work.com by Byron Katie, as well as Gestalt and Reality therapies, and am very intuitive.

How did you get started doing this type of work?

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Since I was a teen people have come to me for advice and praised me for insightful wisdom. I have a good relationship history. I love helping folks find happiness and relationship has the biggest affect on your happiness. I have studied The Hendrick's, who have written many books, including Conscious Loving. And being a lover of learning I've educated myself through the best minds about what really WORKS!

What types of customers have you worked with?

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From Multi-millionaires to teens wanting to understand love, it's all about relationship and feeling connection! I also speak to organizations and corporations about the importance of relationship in the work place for increased productivity and profits.

Describe a recent project you are fond of. How long did it take?

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I feel a sense of expertise with a current newlywed couple who were very close to trashing the marriage, ...and a kid's heart was involved. She was a Tony Robbins Coach! They are taking responsibility for what they are bringing to the interactions, and it's making all the difference in the loving they are all able to feel now! (3 months) A 77 yr old multi-millionaire, who had lost his fortune, found himself through working with me, and cleaned up his past relationships. It only took one month! A wife was reluctant to come to sessions and talk, in one session cleared the entire issue. She has sent me four clients!

What advice would you give a customer looking to hire a provider in your area of work?

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Make sure they have been seasoned through experience! Not just a weekend training, it does not prepare someone to handle complex relationship/spiritual issues. Get on an initial call! You'll know right away! Ask to see credentials and reviews. Ideally they will offer a discovery session so you can determine if you'll enjoy working together.

What questions should customers think through before talking to professionals about their project?

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"What do I really want? " "Am I giving love to myself first?" Complete this 10-15x : When my love life feels ideal I am...... X10 : )

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